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Home (2009) IMDB rating: 8.40 Plot: With aerial footage from 54 countries, Home is a depiction of how the Earth’s problems are all interlinked.

Actors: Documentary

I'm I too demanding, or is my husband too lazy?
I have recently become a stay at home mom to our twin daughters who are 17 months old. After they were born I went back to work FT to a very stressful job. It is only through God’s love and mercy that I didn’t lose my mind working FT, taking care of two babies and running a household. My husband owns his own business and therefore, makes his own hours. He sleeps in everyday until at least 11 AM and on weekends, even later. He is extremely messy, which I unfortunatley didn’t know about until after we bought a house and began living together. I spend more time cleaning up after him then I do my babies. He will literally make a sandwich on the kitchen counter and walk away, leaving the mess for me to clean up. I have always done the cooking, cleaning, shopping but I also do all the yard work, shovel the snow, change lightbulbs, fix toilets, everything!! I feel like I have a teenage son. He hangs out with his friends sometimes several times a week whereas I don’t even go to the grocery store by myself. To be fair to him he does tell me to go out with my friends while he watches the girls but he is so neglectful to them that I fear for their safety. Most of the time I feel like a single parent since I watchthe girls 95% of the time by myself and sometimes I feel I would be better on my own since I would save a lot of time not cleaning up after him. I am very grateful to be a FT mom now but it is still hard work that never gives me a break and I feel he thinks he is not required to help me at home now that he is the breadwinner. I’ve told him several times that I’m exhausted and need help. I’m now 15 lbs lighter then before I got pregnant. His response is that he is tired from his job and is doing the best that he can. What should I do? I need help? Am I asking for too much? I’m getting ready to lose my mind.

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girl he make the money you take care of the kids
Sheniquah | Feb 06, 2010

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.As a SAHM the kids and home are your job. Yes, you should go out and have fun sometimes, but if you aren’t comfy leaving the kids with hubby, hire a sitter. He sounds like a slob and inconsiderate, but that’s what you married and since you aren’t working outside the home anymore, it’s up to you to take care of things. When he gets home in the evening, caring for the children and getting them ready for bed, should be a shared act…you shouldn’t have to care for the kids from dawn until bedtime when he has set work hours. Your work day should "end" at the same time as his…and from there on, you two should be sharing in whatever needs to be done.
BabeHart | Feb 06, 2010

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Why didn’t I found someone to babysit me like you do to your husband?
Irreversible | Feb 06, 2010

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Your husband does sound awfully lazy, not to mention a monumental slob. But, can you hire some help? You need a break just for YOU, without him around, for the sake of your mental health. Even if just to hire a sitter for some time while he is at work, so that you can go out, even if only to shop. Twins are a huge amount of work, and you are clearly stretched to your limits.

You may also need to relax your standards for cleanliness for a period of time, also just to give yourself a bit of a break. He is not going to change, so you need to figure out a way to adapt to what is. It’s harder for you to think about it clearly when you are stressed out of your gourd, but you do need to make time just for yourself. Don’t tell him – just DO it. You don’t need his permission to hire some daytime assistance (IMO), but you clearly do need some help. Breathe….breathe….
eldots53 | Feb 06, 2010

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I agree with BabeHart! That whole stay at home mom business is a SHAM!
Stupid | Feb 06, 2010

Kicking the Dog (2009) IMDB rating: 3.80 Plot: Kicking The Dog is the story of that summer – a story about real life. Yes, the characters need to make life-changing decisions, but they’re also partying, poking boobs, searching the fridge for emergency lubricants, telling stories about sharing condoms and enjoying other distractions that make spending time with old friends something so memorable you’ll never find it anywhere else in life – no matter who you meet. Satchem and Julie must decide whether they should pursue their own personal dreams, or stay together, all while telling stories about nipples and wieners. Matt can and will hook up with any girl that crosses his path, including the girl of his brother Robbie’s dreams. The sexually frustrated Josh finds himself working at the local porn shop while dating the former slut turned good-girl Jen. They soon realize the best times are always with your oldest friends and the ones you love the most.

Actors: Evans Carl T.,Pistilli Jarrod,Laska Scott,Spellman Joe,Wynne Brendan,Moriarty Michael O’Grady,Apt Luka,Arndt Tim,Bilyeu Justin,Comedy,

I lost Control of my dog and had to take action but was it the right action?
Okay so I went to take mt dog for a walk and he is usually really good but today he saw another dog and ran at him. I weigh less than him and lost the leash. he stopped at the other dog to sniff him and the damned thing bit him. In defense my dog bit him back. The other owner wasn’t helping so I kicked my dog. I have never hurt him before and I feel really bad but I did not want him to get hurt or in trouble. Did I do the right thing?

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Why was it needed to kick your dog?

If you can’t control him on a walk you shouldn’t be walking him. Find someone else to take him on walks that can remain in control of him.

If your dog gets into something like this again, you grab his hind legs and pull him away, the other owner will have to do the same so you can safely separate them.
Om Nom nom! | Feb 05, 2010

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If the dogs were fighting you have to do what you have to do to get them to stop. If that is what it took to stop the dog then you did the right thing. You can’t just stand their and let the dogs rip each other to shreds.

However, if you can’t control the dog then you shouldn’t be walking him and if he knew a come back call command or basic training the kicking wouldn’t have been needed.
0Eyes of a Warrior- APBT0 | Feb 05, 2010

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No. Kicking the dog should have been a last resort if any at all. You must be in control of your dog at all times. You ‘lost the leash’. Which means you were not paying attention. Or you need a better way to control your dog.

Try a prong collar, dear.

http://leerburg.com/prong.htm

Launi *Built Ford Tough* | Feb 05, 2010

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No you could simply have pulled his collar back. The thing is though is that you didn’t have much time to think.
Anna | Feb 05, 2010

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the best thing to do when to dogs are fighting is grab your dogs coller and pull them back. be sure to NEVER get between fighting dogs. you can get hurt oh yeah if u cant pull them back why u walkin them!??!? you should be stronger than the dog or dont walk them at all
yea itz me | Feb 05, 2010

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You did break up the fight without getting bitten yourself. Some suggestions for the future. Socialize your dog better. Take him to basic obedience so he doesn’t pull on his leash and does what you tell him to do and learns to get along better with other dogs. An unleashed dog running toward a leashed dog is a very threatening behavior. Until you can control him, I would use a prong collar. They keep the dog from pulling and give you more control.
marci knows best | Feb 05, 2010

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I am sorry, but kicking your dog was not the right thing to do.

Unless the dogs were involved in an intense fight you should have taken back the lead and regained control or your dog.

As a side note if dogs are involved in a fight never ever stick your arm or hand in to try and break it up. You may very well lose one or the other.

This is the very reason I do not keep small dogs.

I have been there done that, cried all the way to the vet.
PARKERD | Feb 05, 2010

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Next time you get close enough to kick the dog, grab the leash and pull them apart.

Obedience classes would be good for both you and the dog. Good luck.
Troll Police Dogs | Feb 05, 2010

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Don’t walk a dog that you know is stronger than you and can overpower you. I wouldn’t do such a thing, but there aren’t very many dogs that I can’t control and keep hold of. Basic training is absolutely necessary. Seeing another dog and bolting is not proper training. He paid no attention to you. Just the other dog and that he wanted to get over there. Does he know the meaning of "come"? Does he listen when you say it? Until you can control the dog properly, have someone else walk him.

As for kicking him, you did what you did and there’s no changing that. You got them apart and that’s what matters. However, you need to learn the proper techniques to breaking up a dog fight if you are ever in this situation again. It will not only protect you, but also protect the dogs involved. The "damned" dog as you referred to it was probably spooked. Here comes your dog, not under control to confront him. He didn’t like it, was probably scared, so he bit your dog. Keep control of your animals at all times.
Cookie | Feb 05, 2010

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You didn’t do the right thing at all. Your dog did what it was trained to do and no I’m not saying you trained it to fight, but you didn’t train it properly. You need to get a no pull leash(and not the ones with the spikes on the inside of the collar.) maybe a harness instead of a leash and possibly a cloth/leash type of muzzle because if it bites again it could be deamed a potentially dangerous animal and be euthanized. Train your dog better or give it to someone who can.
Puppy mills & BYB's go to ** | Feb 05, 2010

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Did your action lead to a deescalation of the fighting and reduce the overall number of injuries to your dog? If so, then it wasn’t as bad as you think because you needed to separate the two dogs without getting yourself hurt in the process. If not, well, it was a silly thing to do buy you were feeling panicked.
a.lee | Feb 05, 2010

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If you broke up the fight without getting hurt yourself, then it was the right thing at the time. I might have done the same thing in the same circumstance, and you have very little time to think about it when these things happen. Kicking is an instinctive reaction. Don’t worry about the dog. He probably barely realized, in the heat of the moment, that it was you that kicked him and dogs are pretty tough. It’s usually the shock value of the kick that does it. not the pain. Never ever break up a dog fight by grabbing the collar, as someone suggested. That’s the best way I know to get bitten and bitten hard, and trust me, a bite to the hand can be very painful even if the teeth don’t break the skin. The collar is too close to the teeth of either dog, and when they get all riled up, dogs don’t know who they bit and the neck is very often what they’re aiming for. They won’t even notice your hand in the way. Grabbing the leash would have been a better choice, or grabbing your own dog by the tail if it has one long enough.

What concerns me more is that you had a leash on the dog and lost control of him anyway. One, you should have spotted that your dog was about to take off, or at least was looking hard at the other dog, and headed off that reaction with the leash or by voice, or both. You need to be alert to what’s around you so you can prevent things like this before it’s too late. Two, you need to have a better grip on the leash if your dog does this kind of thing. Wrap it around your hand a time or two, don’t just hold it with your fingers.
Karen L | Feb 05, 2010

My Life in Ruins (2009) IMDB rating: 6.10 Plot: A travel guide rediscovers her romantic side on a trip around Greece.

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Actors: Dreyfuss Richard,Georgoulis Alexis,McGowan Alistair,Williams Harland,Ogilvy Ian,Palermo Brian,Dauplaise Jareb,Gleeson Simon,Comedy,

I can't get through Phase 1 of the South Beach Diet… =( Please help me……?
I’m 19, 5′5” and I weigh 143 pounds… =( I used to weight 120 pounds… but I went to school away from home and I ordered a bunch of pizzas a day almost everyday……… and I also ate a lot of chocolate and chips…. everyday for three entire months.

I hate myself and I don’t know what to do anymore… I tried starting the South Beach Diet and started into Phase 1 but after only the second day I let myself go and gave into my crazy cravings for junk. and I ordered a medium pizza and ate the whole thing by myself. then I ordered another pizza with fries and a stupid drink and tried eating it all but i was full… but i just kept eating… it was weird. I don’t know what’s happening to me… can someone help me out please? I need to loose this weight and stop these stupid cravings that ruin my life… i need help…

Crank: High Voltage (2009) IMDB rating: 6.50 Plot: Chelios faces a Chinese mobster who has stolen his nearly indestructible heart and replaced it with a battery-powered ticker that requires regular jolts of electricity to keep working.

Actors: Statham Jason,Yoakam Dwight,Ramirez Efren,Wilson Reno,Young Keone,Hsu Art,Soria Joseph Julian,Collins Jr. Clifton,Carradine David,Haim Corey,Unger Billy,Action,

Question About Crank High Voltage Movie…?
You Know that scene when Chev Chelios finally gets the box… and finds out its not his heart, what was inside that box anyways, because i remembering him saying "what the hell is that?, you got some deep problems m****r f****r"

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It was a penis

spanky | Oct 12, 2009

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Ghost | Oct 12, 2009

The Box (2009) IMDB rating: 6.40 Plot: Norma and Arthur Lewis, a suburban couple with a young child, receive a simple wooden box as a gift, which bears fatal and irrevocable consequences. A mysterious stranger, delivers the message that the box promises to bestow upon its owner $1 million with the press of a button. But, pressing this button will simultaneously cause the death of another human being somewhere in the world; someone they don’t know. With just 24 hours to have the box in their possession, Norma and Arthur find themselves in the cross-hairs of a startling moral dilemma and must face the true nature of their humanity.

Actors: Marsden James,Langella Frank,Rebhorn James,Osborne Holmes,Stone Sam Oz,Cartier Mark S.,Robertson Kevin,Kahn Ian,Magaro John,Horror,Sci-Fi,Thriller,

I need an original NES video game console(working condition) + game cartridge.?
I need an original NES video game console + games for it. In india NES was famous as "Samurai Video Game". I want the original "gray boxed" one. It should be in working condition. If there are game cartridges it will be a plus point for me.

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try ebay
Robert H | Feb 07, 2010

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ok dude go to this www.zsnes.com download nes emulator and if u want games search in google download snes classic games or snes/znes games download… enjoy…
PlaYa | Feb 07, 2010

Carny (2009) IMDB rating: 4.80 Plot: When a traveling carnival comes to a rural Nebraska town, the caged attraction everyone is talking about is the alleged Jersey Devil. When the beast escapes, tearing the citizens to shreds, local sheriff Sam Atlas steps up to form a tracking team. But the carnivorous fugitive is only one of Sam’s problems. The local pastor, enraged by the death of his son at the hands of the beast, has plans for igniting his own brand of hellfire and revenge.

i find Carny iPod/iPhone version and download

Actors: Cuzzocrea Dominic,Finnigan Paul,Murray Matt,Peterson Alan C.,Phillips Lou Diamond,Vrana Vlasta,Sci-Fi,

anyone know any good fiction books based on the lives of carnies?
It’s a weird question I know, but in the past weeks I’ve had an urge to read a book about carnies! lol

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well Water for Elephants is about a traveling circus.. idk anything else

alvi | Nov 23, 2009

Homecoming (2009) IMDB rating: 6.60 Plot: Mike was the star quarterback in a blue-collar small town where football is everything. After receiving a scholarship to Northwestern University, he returns home over Christmas break and everyone is surprised to see him with a new girlfriend, Elizabeth, a pretty rich girl from Chicago. No one is more shocked than Mike’s homecoming queen ex-girlfriend, Shelby, who desperately wants Elizabeth out of the picture. After a freak car accident leaves an injured Elizabeth at the mercy of Shelby, all hell breaks loose as Shelby does everything it takes to get Mike back.

Actors: Long Matt,Landes Michael,Williamson Allen,Reese Joshua Elijah,Pasqual Nick,Forgione Joe,Hooper Alex,McCune Andrew,McGinn Benjamin Jeran,Sayre Logan C.,Horror,Thriller,

does she like me or not?
so there’s this girl that i have been thinking about a lot lately. were both freshmen and she thinks that she could be bi-sexual, i’m starting to feel a deep connection with her and shes the only girl i’ve ever felt this way with. there’s times when it seems like she tries to flirt with me. she would tell me that if i were a guy or if i were a lesbian she would so date me and that i’d make a hot guy, idk if shes really joking when she says this . whenever we look directly at eachother we both smile and laugh each time. and when were with our group of friends watching a movie together she always wants to sit and cuddle with me, i find that a hint since were always around people. even when were alone she’ll do the same. sometimes when she would touch me by accident she doesn’t even react quickly to it, she would just act like it’s completely nothing. at homecoming she was grinding up on me from behind and i didn’t obviously care. i can’t really tell if shes only doing this cause shes beginning to feel more comfortable around me or not. i tried to make this more detailed but i don’t want to make this really long for you guys. help? and don’t say just ask, i need a little bit more detail than that

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im guessing your a girl…. she definatly has feelings for you. If she is saying "i wish you were a guy becasue i would date you" i feel like she means she likes you, but she may not be ready to come out of the closet. just let it ride… i wonder how she touches you. if she touches you in sexual places, its no accident. you dont just accedently touch someone there. "oops, i just felt you up, sorry it was an accident" no. deosnt work like that. lol you should "accidently" touch her. see what happends
slightly sublime | Nov 22, 2009

Humpday (2009) IMDB rating: 7.50 Plot: When Andrew unexpectedly shows up on Ben’s doorstep late one night, the two old college friends immediately fall into their old dynamic of heterosexual one-upmanship. To save Ben from domestication, Andrew invites Ben to a party at a sex-positive commune. Everyone there plans on making erotic art films for the local amateur porn festival and Andrew wants in. They run out of booze and ideas, save for one: Andrew should have sex with Ben, on camera. It’s not gay; it’s beyond gay. It’s not porn; it’s an art project. The next day, they find themselves unable to back down from the dare. And there’s nothing standing in their way – except Ben’s wife Anna, heterosexuality, and certain mechanical questions.

Actors: Duplass Mark,Leonard Joshua,Willard Trina,Comedy,

Survey: Worst Humpday Avatar Turnout Ever. Is it because…?
the guys haven’t posted yet?

Let’s see what everyone has come up with so far.

The Billy that Kristy Saw Nekkid is posting at 5:30pm Eastern time. His account should be deleted no later than 5:35pm.

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I had mine up all morning… it’s still on that acct

??s+??? M?? Luvs His Eskimo | Aug 12, 2009

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huh?
Kait The Great

Chasing the Green (2009) IMDB rating: 5.50 Plot: Inspired by a true story, “Chasing the Green” tells the story of two young brothers who become millionaires during the early 1990s. Their ambition and drive lead them into conflict with FTC officials, where an over-zealous bureaucrat attempts to destroy their company. The older brother, tries to reconcile the current crisis with conflicts in his own relationships, primarily with his current girlfriend.

Actors: London Jeremy,Hurst Ryan,Devane William,Picardo Robert,Grimaldi Dan,Pine Larry,Vella Vinny,Nash Howard,Gunn Chris,Young-Fountain Blake,Singh Prem,Anthony James,Drama,Romance,Sport,

Do green snakes appear to be choking when they are eating crickets?
My daughter has a fairly new green snake. We’ve never seen it eat before but today it appears to be moving strangely and choking. My hope is that it chased down a big cricket in the tank. He was active and climbing all morning, then we saw him with his head hanging out of the vines, laying on the sand floor, sideways with his mouth gaping. I can’t see anything in his mouth and don’t want to disturb him, but we are worried that something might be wrong. Can anyone please tell me if it’s normal for a snake to have a gaping mouth and jerky, backward movements when trying to swallow prey?

Thanks in advance!

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No, that is defintely not normal. Crickets are small and easily swallowed.
If he does not stop this very soon, you will need to pick him up and look in his throat, to see if there is a blockage. It is possible that he swallowed a piece of bark or a rock instead of a cricket, and that he is choking on it.
However, it may not related to his throat at all. Is his whole head going up and falling backwards? This may be caused by a disease called IBD, which is usually fatal, but typically only occurs in boas and pythons.

Zoe | Jan 04, 2007

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Sure. It would look like it’s trying to get something down.

If there’s something wrong with him, I guess you’d have to get a new snake… At least you have all the equipment now so it wouldn’t be expensive like before.
Silly chick | Jan 04, 2007

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Sound like the snake is dry heaving. Did it go out clubbing or at the bar yesterday night? Could be one shot of Jaegermeister too many.
Tones | Jan 04, 2007

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its a normal eating pateren from the sound of things, but laying on his side dosent sound good
buddy d | Jan 04, 2007

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Sounds to me like you guys don’t know how to take care of a snake. Your hope was that it chased down a big cricket in the tank? Well, did you feed him a cricket? If indeed there is a cricket, where is the bulge? Behind it’s head or more down (roughly a quarter of the way down it’s body?)

Good luck to that snake…
Riby | Jan 04, 2007

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first, what kind of green snake is it? Green vine sanke, rought green snake, smooth green snake, green rat snake????

second you said it was on a VINE with its head on the SAND? if its a tropical snake like a asian vine snake then it should be on some type of mulch bedding like bedabeast. if its a desert snake like a green rat snake then it should have any type of mositure in its tank. This could be the troblem. If its a tropical snake and it was trying to a cricket and got a mouth full of sand it could be choking.

Hope this helps…..
Joey | Jan 04, 2007

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I never had a green snake begore.. but I did paly with small GUARDER SNAKES when I was younger.. they are not posionous and they didn’t seem to bite me either.. But I never seen a snake eat a cricket or bug.. but maybe that’s just their way of eating.. they may recurgatate their food then swallow..
amanda | Jan 04, 2007