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 One Hell of a Christmas (2002)
IMDB rating: 3.80
Plot: “One Hell of a Christmas” is a dark and action packed comedy that takes place in a modern city as well as in a fearful underworld. When Carlitos is released after doing 2 years of “hard time”, he attempts to redeem himself and sets an example for his 5 year-old son. However, when a friend confronts him with a very dark and horrifying scam for some quick dough and good times, he declines, but never the less he soon finds himself entangled in a web of sex, drugs and Christmas carols.
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Directors: Gonzalez Shaky
Actors: Montana Tolo,Lindhardt Thure,Holmey Erik,Buric Zlatko,Kelman Pat,Thorsberg Rickie,Jensen Claus P.,Lindstad Lasse Skou,Lindstad Lasse Skou,El Koussa Salah,Bateson David,Dahlawan Jaber,Gonzales Alberto,Heigren Flemming,Action,Comedy,Crime,Drama,Horror,Mystery,
why does my boyfriend of 3 years allow his ex to interfere in our relationship?help please!?
ive been seeing this guy for about 3 years now.he broke up with his ex then hooked up with me(unfortunatly almost right away)his ex knew and boy she was fuming)he has 2 kids to her,7 and 8,girl and boy. however he sees the kids every friday,provides for them etc and does whatever he can for them but his ex is constantly texting my boyfriend or calling him for really trivial things and she knows full well hes with me.its like she uses the kids to get to him as she knows he would do anything for his kids.his ex though is a massive control freak with narssasitic qualities:( he says he hates her etc but its obvious she wore the trousers in his last relationship with her that lasted 11 years. she got with a guy and was with him for over a year but now they have split shes always on at my boyfriend and it honestly feels like there is 3 of us in the relationship,i dont know if i can take it anymore,i heard him once even calling her"doll" on the phone in front of me,i went mad but he thought it was no big deal and his excuse of her being a bully towards him basically is"thats just the way she is" ive been in tears,weve had arguements over her,of course i love his kids and i dont mind them in our relationship but NOT her as well! and to top it all off,its coming up for christmas and my boyfriend his kids and his EX with his family(mum and sister)are playing happy families on xmas day! it felt like a kick in the stomach.it was a different story when his ex was with someone else as she didnt spend xmas with my boyfriends family but i dont get it?is his mum being spiteful to me?(she adores his kids)my boyfriend told me numerous time his mum hates his ex but its like everyone is treading on their tip-toes around his ex. i even found out his ex is now doing my boyfriends washing! i really dont know what to think of this?im so tired of her being in the background constantly and she relys on my boyfriend for everything and he thinks its ok.is he dumb or feels guilty?of course ive never been invited up for xmas diner to his family cos his ex is there!(but mum hates her remember) i told my boyfriend the other night that if this happens at next christmas etc im not going to be sticking around cos im sure his ex will be loving it,she will know it will be hurting my feelings surely?i never seeher though although if and when his ex calls him when with me,hell cut the call short and finish the rest of the conversation when im not there. i belive she still has feelings or something for him even though one min she treats him nice with kisses on his texts from her next its different. PLEASE! what the hell am i supposed to think/do/say? i told him she calls him more than i do and he didnt deny it! and im his girlfriend of 3 damn years! and every excuse they both use"the kids" im smart enough to know its not always about the kids.yet he almsot cried the other night to say how much he loved me and he wants to be with me and he was sorry i felt that way but that was all he had to say on that. do i stick around and put up with that forever?i get anxious evertime his mobile goes as i think itll be her.im honestly sick to death of it all. i expected the kids but not the "ex" too. ive asked him to tell her to back off but he says he cant incase she uses the kids against him.(shes threatened that in the past)hes also quite passive when it comes to woman.we had split up but now i wish i never got back with him. what on earth can i do here?what should i do?i cant go on like this,im spending christmas alone with my 2 kids as me and my family dont speak. im just very surprised hes OK with his ex coming up and playing happy families on christmas with him his kids hismum and his sister(oh the ex has full custody of his kids) im also sick of her treating him the way she does alot,takes him for granted all the time(she behaves like a bully sometimes) please read this and anyone who has i thank you so much but please leave your advice as im going to really take it on board as im really sick of his ex its making me resent him abit.PLEASE HELP!!!
AND WHY HAVE YOU STUCK AROUND FOR SO LONG, THEN, IF THIS IS SO TERRIBLE????????
Honey, he’s proven he really doesn’t care much for you. His kids are very important, whether or not he really still cares about his ex doesn’t really matter. He’s got kids with her and she’ll be in this life for at least the next 10 years!! So she’ll continue this as long as she can! If she can hook him in, then she will. BUT SHE WON’T GO AWAY!!!!!
Serene E | Dec 14, 2009
You will never be happy with this man because he is pussy whipped by his ex. Period.
Just like he has made a choice to be controlled by his ex, you can make the choice not to be in a relationship that is unfulfilling and too stressful for you to handle.
Actually, it is pretty simple: Stay and put up with what you do not like or hit the road and don’t look back.
seamstress | Dec 14, 2009
You really need to calm down about all of this. You got together with someone who JUST broke up with a girlfriend – red flag ! He has two kids and an ex to deal with. Get used to it.
Many families continue to include their spouse’s ex on holidays when kids are involved.
The only person who is "putting you through" anything is yourself. Do whatever-it-is that will make you happy. Apparently you can’t accept things for the way they are, he doesn’t know what he wants, and you’re making yourself miserable.
think about it, and then do what is healthiest for you. those of us who can’t accept others and the way they live will continue to expect them to change forever.
letterstoheather | Dec 14, 2009